About Green Flag Theory
Short videos for guys about dating, sex and relationships. Each one takes a common red-flag belief and flips it into the green-flag version, in under ten seconds.
Why it exists
A lot of what guys learn about dating comes from friends, porn and the internet, and some of it does damage: to the people they date, and to themselves. Green Flag Theory takes those ideas one at a time and shows the better move. No lecture, no shaming: just the swap.
Who it is for
Guys, mostly 18 to 34, who want to get it right. And anyone who wants to send it to a guy who needs it.
What it covers
40 flags so far, in 10 topics: consent, drinking and consent, texts, pics and online, control and jealousy, feelings and anger, your mates, rejection and breakups, porn vs. reality, protection and testing, healthy relationships. Every video is written out on the home page, and each flag has its own page that explains why.
How it is made
- The ideas, the on-screen text and the explanations on this site are written with the help of AI.
- The voice-over is generated with AI, and every video is labelled as AI-made on the platform where it is posted.
- We are not doctors, lawyers or therapists. This is not professional advice. If something happened to you or someone you know, talk to someone.
When we get it wrong
If you think a flag is wrong, unfair or could be said better, tell us. Every flag page also has a “Disagree? Tell us” form. We read every message, and we fix mistakes.