Red flag
Picking her clothes is taste.
Green flag
Her body. Her call.
Compliment. Don't order.
Is it OK to tell your girlfriend what to wear?
Why?
Giving a compliment or saying what you like is fine. Telling her what she can and can't wear is not. Her body, her clothes, her call. Comments like "you're not going out like that" are about control, even when they're presented as taste or protection. Say what you like if she asks, and let her decide.
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