Red flag
You compare yourself to porn guys.
Green flag
They're cast for size.
How you treat her wins.
Is it normal to compare yourself to porn actors?
Why?
It's common, but it's a bad comparison. Porn actors are chosen for their size and filmed with angles that exaggerate it. Studies put the average erect penis at about 13 cm, or a little over 5 inches. Most partners care much more about how you treat them, how you listen and how relaxed you are than about size.
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