Red flag
Your mates ask if you scored.
Green flag
What happened is private.
Her story isn't your trophy.
Should you tell your friends what happened in bed?
Why?
No. What happened between you and her is private. Giving details, showing messages or bragging to look good turns her into a trophy, and it can get back to her. If friends ask whether you scored, you can just say "that's private". Real confidence doesn't need an audience.
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