Is drama a sign of real love?

Q: Is drama a sign of real love?

Red flag: Real love means drama. Green flag: Healthy love feels calm. No. Constant fights, breakups and makeups, jealousy and big emotional highs and lows can feel intense, but intense isn't the same as healthy. Healthy love feels calm: you feel safe, you can talk, and disagreements don't turn into wars. Calm isn't boring. It's safe.

Red flag

Real love means drama.

Green flag

Healthy love feels calm.

Calm isn't boring. It's safe.

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Why?

No. Constant fights, breakups and makeups, jealousy and big emotional highs and lows can feel intense, but intense isn't the same as healthy. Healthy love feels calm: you feel safe, you can talk, and disagreements don't turn into wars. Calm isn't boring. It's safe.

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