Red flag
Telling her who she can see?
Green flag
That's not love. That's a leash.
She had a life before you.
Is it controlling to tell your girlfriend who she can see?
Why?
Yes. Deciding who she's allowed to hang out with, or making her feel guilty for seeing friends and family, is a classic sign of a controlling relationship. She had a life before you and she should keep it. If a specific person really worries you, say why, once, and then trust her to decide.
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