Red flag
"Where are you? Who's there?"
Green flag
Once is fine. Twenty times is control.
Count your texts.
How many times is it OK to ask "where are you?"
Why?
Asking once, because you're curious or want to meet up, is fine. Asking again and again, wanting photos to prove where she is or getting angry when she doesn't answer fast, is control. If you notice you're counting her replies or checking when she was last online, step back. Constant checking makes people feel watched, not loved.
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