Red flag
She's your girlfriend. No need to ask.
Green flag
Yes last night isn't yes tonight.
Every time is new.
Do you need consent from your girlfriend every time?
Why?
Yes. Being in a relationship doesn't mean a permanent yes. She can want it one night and not the next, and that's normal. Every time is new. Checking in doesn't have to kill the mood: "Do you want to?" or "Is this OK?" takes two seconds. A partner who feels free to say no is a partner who really means yes.
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