Red flag
She didn't say no.
Green flag
She didn't say yes.
Only one counts.
If she didn't say no, is that consent?
Why?
No. Silence, not resisting or going along isn't the same as a yes. People sometimes freeze when they feel uncomfortable or scared. Only a clear yes counts: words, or obvious enthusiasm. If you're not sure, ask. If you still can't tell, don't.
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