Red flag
You asked five times. She finally said OK.
Green flag
That's pressure, not consent.
Worn down isn't willing.
Is it consent if she says yes after you asked many times?
Why?
No. If you had to ask five times before she said OK, that's pressure, not consent. Wearing someone down until they give in is not the same as them wanting it. A real yes comes easily. If the answer is no or "I don't know", accept it and drop it. Worn down isn't willing.
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