Red flag
No condom means trust.
Green flag
It means a gamble.
With her health too.
Does not using a condom mean you trust each other?
Why?
No. Trust doesn't test for infections and it doesn't prevent pregnancy. Many sexually transmitted infections have no symptoms, so neither of you may know. Using a condom is about both your health and hers. If you want to stop using them in a relationship, get tested together first and agree on contraception.
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