Red flag
Talking about it kills the mood.
Green flag
Guessing kills it faster.
Ask before. Not after.
Does talking about condoms kill the mood?
Why?
No. Guessing kills it faster. Bringing it up before things get intense, "Do you have condoms or should I grab one?", takes a few seconds and shows you're someone she can trust. Talking about protection before sex is normal and mature. Ask before, not after.
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