Red flag
Getting tested is embarrassing.
Green flag
Passing something on is worse.
Test. Know. Then go.
Is getting tested for STIs embarrassing?
Why?
No. Getting tested is routine health care, like going to the dentist. Many STIs have no symptoms, so testing is the only way to know. It's usually quick, confidential and often free or cheap at clinics. Passing something on without knowing is far worse than a short visit. Test. Know. Then go.
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